Sunday, October 3, 2010

A few random thoughts today...

Will regret ever go away? All of my family is in San Francisco moving my brother and his girlfriend into their new home together. These 25-year-old kids forging out on their own makes me long for those days after college where the world was my playground...the possibilities endless... It also brings up my old friend, regret. The hindsight of wishing I had done things different back then. Chose another path. But what can you do? Nothing. The reality is I live where I am and I am who I am because of the path I chose. Now what am I going to do with it? Keep traveling? Find another road? Not sure. For now I am holding strong. Looking deep within and finding strength and confidence I never knew I had.

Does therapy work? I've been in therapy on and off for 11 years. Sure it has helped me clarify many issues in my past and has helped me reframe thing currently in my life. BUT is it effective in breaking unhealthy patterns in a relationship? Basically, my therapist told me no this week. He thinks you can find the humor in the patterns, learn to laugh about  yourself and your partner. Not in a negative way but in such a manner as not to take yourself or the relationship too serious. I guess I am going to try this. I may be too serious of a person. *sarcastic laugh*

Does sexting make things HOT? YES. BUT look out cause the man on the other end is going to want it when he gets home! It's all fun and games until you actually have to put out. AND look out if you both have iphone 4 because things get interesting with face time. I will leave it at that.



  1. You may regret, but you do a fabulous job of keeping on keeping on. XO


  2. This is one of the ultimate classic cliches, but it was the best practical advice I got at our wedding, and I actually took it to heart and think your therapist is right cuz it works: DON'T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF. I know right now you have a lot of BIG stuff you're thinking about, so that's part of the problem; but in that light, if u can at least ignore the small stuff, maybe it will help a little. Good luck, chica!

    PS - Luv that ur still such a slut! xoxo

  3. Thanks Ladies! Great encouragement and advice, it always helps!

    AND YES, Kitty I am a slut....learned from the best....YOU!